Finding new friends

I have been looking for a bi friend to chat and see about the feelings i have

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What kind of feelings are you having?

I'm also wanting to explore my bi side further I know massage therapy and when I massage a guy I get turned on and hard I will try to be complimentary if it is noticed it generally gets the guy turned on as well

I seem to message a lot of couples or singles and say how are u? and no response. Would be nice to get to know some swingers.

What is the gold star that comes up on my picture when I post messages.

I would like to find new friends and meet people near me.

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I seem to message a lot of couples or singles and say how are u? and no response. Would be nice to get to know some swingers.

If how are you is all you say when you message that may be the problem. Speaking only for myself I tend to ignore message that are only "how are you" or "hi" just for example

I am available all the time

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What is the gold star that comes up on my picture when I post messages.

This means you are a Gold member

How many of us are in the same boat? Married, love my wife dearly, but mismatched libidos left me horny all the time, I then hooked up with a bi-man who just wanted to go down on me with no expectation of anything in return. But once I went there there was no going back. I'm now at my happiest bringing pleasure to woman and men preferably both at the same time), but have to do it all in secrecy as my wife would never accept the idea of me with another man.

I am the same as you. I have been with a couple and it's really hot

Seems that there are a lot of us, my wife is so vanilla that you can bake a cake with her. She will never accept the lifestyle, therefore I have to keep mi bi side very private.

so familiar...anyone in Peel County, On

Reading your post was like reading my mind. I enjoy going down on my husband any chance I get but the response from him is just not there. I want to explore more into my sexuality with another woman. Played with a couple years ago and it was a great experience.

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How many of us are in the same boat? Married, love my wife dearly, but mismatched libidos left me horny all the time, I then hooked up with a bi-man who just wanted to go down on me with no expectation of anything in return. But once I went there there was no going back. I'm now at my happiest bringing pleasure to woman and men preferably both at the same time), but have to do it all in secrecy as my wife would never accept the idea of me with another man.

married and again use my bi side to try and be open ... not sure if i do it in real life that i will still be married after.. this summer i am looking in holland for a good bi man to play and grow with then bring my wife for a trio

I agree with Norm. I love my wife dearly but she has no interest in sex whatever and it is rarely far from my thoughts. The discovery that there was pleasure to be had with men in some ways saved my sanity and I thoroughly enjoy that now although the attraction to women is still very much there. I suspect that is what being bi is about for many people, male and female.

@azgurl what a shame. Going down on a woman and bringing her to orgasm with tongue and fingers is the greatest. I don’t understand why a husband wouldn’t go there.

@tinker2 I suspect that’s the same for many, many people. Good to know we are not alone.

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How many of us are in the same boat? Married, love my wife dearly, but mismatched libidos left me horny all the time, I then hooked up with a bi-man who just wanted to go down on me with no expectation of anything in return. But once I went there there was no going back. I'm now at my happiest bringing pleasure to woman and men preferably both at the same time), but have to do it all in secrecy as my wife would never accept the idea of me with another man.

You couldn't have expressed my feelings or situation better. The difference is I haven't had the opportunity yet to decide if "curious" becomes "bi".

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You couldn't have expressed my feelings or situation better. The difference is I haven't had the opportunity yet to decide if "curious" becomes "bi".

Because I am single went to a all boys boarding school. I have learnt massage therapy and I get very turned on by seeing the guys mostly and ladies get hard or wet while I massage them. They are only friends I massage and generally wwith partner present. If the guy is naked and on his back with a boner I will try change the awkwardness by stripping down to my boxers so they can see I am also hard. Ive had some fun times.

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@azgurl what a shame. Going down on a woman and bringing her to orgasm with tongue and fingers is the greatest. I don’t understand why a husband wouldn’t go there.

I make a point of pleasing the lady first as they recover alot quicker than men. I have a small cock so what I I lack in equipment I gain in technique

I've recently been open about being bi. Within the last 2-3 years or so. It's so freeing for the mind. In my adult life, I've always found that being honest is way, way too much fun and was increasingly more uncomfortable in discussions about sex and hiding my true feelings. It's not like I use a loud speaker or anything but when asked I admit it. No one believed it at first. To me, it's a shame that it took me so long. All of the opportunities lost.